CTO Dinners

One table, one topic, and the people who are living it.

Actual organizes small, invitation-only dinners for CTOs and engineering leaders. Each one is hosted at the home of a local CTO or engineering leader. The evening takes one topic and gives the whole table time to compare what they have actually tried. There is no pitch and no panel.

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A long dinner table on a covered patio at dusk, with water and a cloudy sky behind it
A table set for dinner in front of windows looking out on the Seattle skyline and the Space Needle
Dinner guests seated around a table, smiling at the camera

How the table works

Three rules for the facilitated conversation

Each dinner includes one facilitated conversation, and the rules apply only to that part of the evening. The rest of the night is an ordinary dinner at someone's home. The rules are what make this different from a hosted dinner at a restaurant or a networking event. They let people say what is really going on, and they keep the conversation useful for everyone at the table.

  1. Rule 1

    One conversation

    The whole table talks about one topic together. No side conversations, so everyone hears everything.

  2. Rule 2

    Stories, not advice

    We share what we did and what happened. Nobody tells anyone else what they should do.

  3. Rule 3

    Nothing leaves the room

    What is said in the conversation stays there, unless the person who said it tells you otherwise.

Join us

Request an invite

Tell us who you are and where you are based. Dinners are hosted in homes near you and each table is built around one topic, so we will reach out when there is an evening that fits.

We will email you a link to confirm your address. Your request is recorded once you open it. Dinners are by invitation, and we use these details to decide which evening fits you.